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Yulia Ievleva


Yulia Ievleva
LMFT 48839
Psychotherapist in California
+1(657)246-2552 PST
My goal is to support and empower my clients to develop necessary insights and coping skills to break through barriers and create the life they aspire to.
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When Caring Becomes a Cage: The Neurobiology of Compulsive Helping
“Marian” is the kind of person everyone relies on. She’s 78, gentle, generous, and still starts her mornings by checking on the people she loves. One of them (her younger brother) calls every day. Sometimes it’s for help, sometimes for money, sometimes just to complain about the world. She knows he’s made choices that hurt people. She’s seen him charm, manipulate, and burn bridges. Yet when his number lights up, she can’t bring herself to silence the phone. Her stomach knots;


Unlocking the Power of Pharmacogenetic Testing for Better Mental Health Solutions
You have swallowed the pills. You have waited the weeks. You have hoped for a shift. Then came the side effects, the letdown, and the...


From Struggle to Strength: Mental Health Support for New Immigrants
I provide therapy that honors cultural backgrounds, respects language needs, and supports both emotional and practical adaptation.


Love Without Compromise? Why Knowing Your Relationship Non-Negotiables is a Must
In the early glow of a budding romance, it’s easy to overlook red flags or assume that love will fix everything. But as any healthy...


The Power of Positive Expectancy in Therapy
What is Positive Expectancy? Positive expectancy refers to the belief or expectation that therapy will bring about positive change. It's...


Healing from Self-Sacrifice and Self-Sabotage: Take a Stand!
Have you ever found yourself stuck in a relationship where you’re constantly trying to fix someone who doesn’t want to change? Maybe you...


You Can Love Yourself More Than You Were Loved by Them
If you’re reading this and carrying the heavy, invisible weight of chronic suicidal thoughts, know this: you are not broken. You are not...


Blending Families: When Less is More
In an ideal world, the blending of families after remarriage would look like something from a heartwarming movie: shared holidays, easy...


Toxic Sibling Rivalry in Families: Navigating the Challenges and Healing the Wounds
Sibling relationships are often portrayed as endearing, protective, and filled with shared memories. However, not all sibling bonds are...


Therapy as a Partnership: Why Your Engagement Matters
In therapy, the work is not done by the therapist alone - it’s a shared effort. While therapists provide guidance, support, and insights,...


The Myth of a "Magical Fix" in Therapy
It’s not uncommon for people in unhappy marriages or relationships to seek therapy, hoping for a quick fix. But the reality is that...


The Art of Radical Acceptance: Protecting Your Peace in Challenging Family Dynamics
Family is usually where we seek love, support, and understanding, but for some, family dynamics can feel more chaotic than comforting....


Deciding to Walk Away: Recognizing When Therapy Can’t Fix the Relationship
Therapy is a powerful tool for healing, growth, and understanding in relationships. It can help couples work through difficult issues,...


The Healing Power of Connection: Why Relationships Matter in Overcoming Trauma
Trauma can feel like a heavy, isolating burden. Whether it’s the aftermath of a specific event or the accumulation of long-term emotional...


Radical Kindness: The Case for Self-Compassion
Self-compassion, a concept popularized by Dr. Kristin Neff, has emerged as a cornerstone in modern psychotherapy, offering a powerful...
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